Kamis, 09 Mei 2013

100 impian-KU

James Dean says 'dreams as if you will live forever, live as if you will die today'. Dan aku bilang 'bermimpilah selagi kamu bisa bermimpi'...Pastikan impian kamu itu spesifik dan jelas agar lekas terkabul...
Inilah daftar 100 impianku...
1. Sabtu, 11 Mei 2013 ke cengkareng ketemu arsa sama alden
2. Mei 2013 beli celengan dari tanah liat di bawah jembatan detos
3. Mei 2013 bisa jalan-jalan ke Jogja sama Novi sama Sintia naik kereta
4. 18 Mei 2013 bisa ikut seminar gratis yang diadain Fakultas Sastra Universitas Gunadarma
5. ingin punya hp samsung galaxy ace 2 di bulan Mei tahun 2013
6. Mei 2013 jalan-jalan sama mama ke ITC terus nraktir mama makan Steak Moen-Moen
7. Mei 2013 beli pizza di Pizza Hut buat mama
8. Mei 2013 buka bank account di bank DKI cabang kampus G Universitas Gunadarma
9. selama 2 tahun ke depan (2013-2015) aku ga mau ada hal-hal kecil maupun besar yang mengganggu kuliahku
10. ingin jerawatnya ga muncul-muncul lagi dan mukanya bersih ga ada bekas jerawatnya di akhir bulan Mei 2013, atau maksimal akhir tahun 2013
11. nonton di bioskop di Plaza Depok sama mama bulan Juni 2013
12. makan di KFC di Plaza Depok dibayarin mama Juni 2013
13. Juni 2013 jalan-jalan ke Pari Island sama Mama sama Koko
14. Juni 2013 diving di Pulau Pari
15. bulan Juni 2013 menjadi guru di lembaga bimbingan belajar LIA di Kelapa Dua, Depok
16. Juni 2013 kenalan langsung sama mas Danny 'Healthy Beans'
17. Juni 2013 bisa akting dengan baik agar lulus dengan nilai yang memuaskan di ujian praktikum Pengantar Apresiasi Sastra
18. Juni 2013 beli dompet baru buat mama di ITC
19. Juli 2013 beli dompet baru buat Adi Arfiyanto di Gramedia
20. Juli 2013 bisa skype-an sama Adi Arfiyanto
21. Juli 2013 selesai baca novel Eldest
22. Juli 2013 dikasih customer voice-nya starbuck dari Dinia Christy
23. Juli 2013 diajak karaoke-an lagi sama Nay, Novi, Ayu, Sintia
24. Agustus 2013 pulang kampung dan ketemu Adi Arfiyanto
25. bulan Agustus 2013 ketemu sama ibunya Adi lagi
26. bulan Agustus 2013 dikenalin sama ayahnya Adi
27. Agustus 2013 jalan-jalan di Malioboro sama Adi Arfiyanto
28. Agustus 2013 makan bareng sama Adi di salah satu warung lesehan di Jogja
29. Agustus 2013 nonton di bioskop Ambarukmo Plaza sama Adi Arfiyanto
30. Agustus 2013 dikasih earphone/headphone dari Adi Arfiyanto
31. Agustus 2013 dibeliin mp4 sama Adi Arfiyanto
32. September 2013 dapet kejutan ultah dari Adi Arfiyanto. Adi tiba-tiba muncul di depan rumah di Depok
33. September 2013 dikasih sepasang hamster lucu dari Nurpadillah Pitriyanti
34. dikasih sepatu baru sama mama, bulan September 2013
35. September 2013 dikasih boneka Hello Kitty dari Adi Arfiyanto
36. di kasih pashmina chiffon dari Novia/Sintia September 2013
37. punya uang buat nraktir Novia, Sintia, Puteri makan di Hoka-Hoka Bento Detos September 2013
38. les Bahasa Korea dan mempelajari all about Korea bulan September 2013
39. khatam baca Al-Qur'an beserta memahami terjemahannya bulan September 2013
40. Oktober 2013 pulang kampung dan ngrayain ultah Adi bareng-bareng
41. Oktober 2013 ngasih kejutan buat Adi Arfiyanto dengan muncul tiba-tiba di depan rumahnya
42. November 2013 punya murid les private yang sebulannya bayar 300ribu
43. akhir tahun 2013 usaha jual kerudung, dsb milikku semakin lancar
44. ingin beli mesin cuci baru merk apa aja buat mama di akhir tahun 2013
45. bisnis pulsa dan jual jilbabnya semakin lancar di tahun 2014
46. tahun 2014 udah punya counter hp sendiri di rumah
47. tahun 2014 score TOEFL harus lebih dari 550
48. tahun 2014 nanti, aku nyusun penulisan ilmiah. dan aku ingin selama penulisan ilmiah itu ga ada gangguan apapun
49. tahun 2014, jadi asisten LAB Bahasa Inggris di Universitas Gunadarma
50. Januari 2014 dikasih motor vario warna item dari papa
51. tahun 2014 menang undian terus dapet kulkas 2 pintu buat mama
52. tahun 2014 pengen liburan kuliah semester 6 ke Korea selama 2 bulan, gratis! terus ketemu secara ga disengaja sama Choi Siwon
53. beli TV layar datar buat mama di akhir tahun 2014
54. ketemu sama temen-temen sd/smp/sma secara kebetulan di Margo City tahun 2014
55. tahun 2015 punya toko baju muslimah, jilbab, dan accessories di Jalan Margonda, Depok
56. tahun 2015 nanti, aku nyusun skripsi. aku ingin selama penyusunan skripsi ga ada gangguan apapun
57. lulus dengan IPK 3,75 tahun 2015 nanti
58. jadi designer di toko baju muslimah milik sendiri tahun 2015
59. jadi Miss Indonesia 2015 yang pake jilbab
60. liburan ke Jerman tahun 2015, gratis!
61. tahun 2015, tepatnya setelah lulus dari Universitas Gunadarma, dapat full beasiswa hidup dan kuliah S2 di University of Oxford dari Erasmus Mundus
62. kerja part-time di salah satu restaurant di Inggris selama kuliah di University of Oxford
63. punya temen pria dengan iris mata warna biru jernih di Inggris tahun 2015
64. lulus kuliah S2 dari University of Oxford majoring English Literature dengan IPK 3,5 tahun 2016
65. punya laptop merk Apple akhir tahun 2016
66. kerja di Bloomsbury Publishing as editor tahun 2017-2019
67. tahun 2018 beli hp merk HTC di Inggris
68. tahun 2019 pulang ke Indonesia, bawa oleh-oleh buat mama sama koko
69. tahun 2019 aqiqah-in mama
70. tahun 2019 berangkat haji sama mama
71. tahun 2020 kerja di PT Gramedia Pustaka Utama sebagai penerjemah atau editor
72. tahun 2020 menikah dengan Adi Arfiyanto di Depok
73. tahun 2020 bulan madu sama Adi Arfiyanto ke Korea terus ketemu sama Choi Siwon (lagi)
74. tahun 2021 beli rumah tipe 80 di Depok
75. tahun 2021 jadi ibu dari sepasang anak kembar
76. anak pertama (laki-laki) hidungnya mancung kaya hidung Adi, rambutnya kaya rambut Adi, alisnya tebel kaya alisnya Adi, pinternya kaya ibu dan ayahnya, tapi yang penting sehat lahir batin
77. anak keduanya (perempuan) punya hidung mancung juga, kulitnya kuning langsat, rambutnya ikal di ujung, alisnya tebel kaya alisnya Adi, dan pinternya kaya ibu dan ayahnya, tapi yang penting sehat lahir batin juga
78. tahun 2022 punya lembaga bimbingan belajar untuk siswa, mahasiswa, dan umum di Depok
79. punya perpustakaan pribadi di rumah tahun 2022
80. tahun 2023 resign dari PT Gramedia Pustaka Utama dan fokus ke lembaga bimbingan belajar
81. punya bioskop mini pribadi di rumah tahun 2023
82. tahun 2024 punya mobil terios warna putih
83. tahun 2025 reunian sama temen-temen SMA di Bali
84. tahun 2025 beli rumah tipe 60 buat mama
85. tahun 2025 nerbitin novel
86. tahun 2025 ngrayain anniversary pernikahan kelima di Jepang
87. tahun 2025 dikasih mobil mazda 2 wana merah terang dari Adi
88. suatu hari yang tak tahu entah kapan dan dimana, ketemu sama Tom Cruize, Shia LaBeouf secara kebetulan
89. punya penginapan dengan fasilitas lengkap di Jogjakarta tahun 2028
90. punya panti sosial untuk anak-anak gelandangan dan yatim piatu tahun 2030
91. tahun 2035 jalan-jalan ke Inggris bersama keluarga
92. menjadi ibu yang selalu ada disamping anak-anaknya ketika dibutuhkan
93. menjadi istri yang taat dan patuh serta menghormati suaminya
94. pengen punya keluarga kecil yang bahagia
95. aduh, ga sengaja ngliat foto-foto diblog orang yang ada Dimas Anggaranya, jadi pengen ketemu Dimas Anggara
96. tahun 2026 pindah ke Jogja dan tinggal di Jogja
97. tahun 2015 punya Samsung Galaxy Note II
98. tahun 2021 pengen tetep proporsional walaupun pernah melahirkan
99. tahun 2013 diajak jalan-jalan ke Waterboom sama Mba Tuti
100. semua impian-impian dari nomer 1 sampe nomer 100 terkabul....aamiin

Oh my God, ternyata bikin daftar 100 impian itu ga segampang yang aku bayangin...tapi untungnya selesai juga...fiuh..

Rabu, 08 Mei 2013

Analysis of 'The Secret'

Chapter 1: The Secret Revealed
This chapter is the intro to the book. It introduces the reader to several "experts" in the use of the Law of Attraction. Apparently everyone knew about his except for us. The premise of this chapter (and of the whole book) is that your thoughts attract other similar thougths and circumstances, therefore, your thoughts create your reality. That is, if you think you have bad luck you will have bad luch and more of it.
The good thing is that the opposite is also true. Your thoughts send out a frequency to the universe and the universe responds to that frequency by bringin to you more of the same. "Your thoughts become things".


Chapter 2: The Secret Made Simple
The Law of Attraction is always there - just like the laws of gravity and other physical laws of the universe. Emotions are like your gauge that tells you how you are feeling, and thinking. That is, even if you think that you are going to win the lottery, if your gut tells you that the odds are against you, you will not win. That is, you have to believe, beyond any doubt that you will win. If you don't "feel" the confidence you are not
there with your thoughts. You have to feel good to know that you are in the right frequency required. If you are feeling bad, immediately make yourself feel good by listening to your favorite music, feeling thankful for something you already have, or emmitting the strongest of feelings - love.


Chapter 3: How to Use the Secret
The Law of Attraction grants every wish you ask. There are 3 simple steps in the Creative Process: ASK, BELIEVE, AND RECEIVE. Believing is an important part becasue if you don't truly believe that you can get what you ask for, you won't emit the proper "frequency" to the universe. It takes no time and no effort for the universe to respond to what you ask for. Therefore, if you want money, it is just as easy for the Universe to give you 1 Million dollars as it is to give you 1 dollar. However, it is wise to test out the law by asking for something small at first and then go to the bigger items. This will build your confidence in your power as well.


Chapter 4: Powerful Processes
Expectation is a powerful force. Therefore, expect what you want, not what you don't want. Gratitude is also a powerful force. By being grateful, you send out a more powerful signal to the universe. Visualization also serves this purpose. The universe will then return the reality as you saw it in your mind. This has been preached forever by past leaders. Make the Law of Attraction a habit, not just a onece-in-a-while thing. At the end of each day or at the beginning, or both, review what you did not like and immediately focus on how to make things better. This will change your frame of thinking and attract to you what you want.


Chapter 5: The Secret to Money
The same principles apply to Money. Don't focus on lack of money or the many bills you get daily. Focus instead on wealth, and plenty of it. You have to believe you already have it and feel good about having it. You must tell yourself "I can afford that" instead of the popular "I can't afford that!". Also, give money in order to get money. By doing this you are telling the universe that you have plenty of money in your pocket. Therefore, you will attract more money. Also, visualize checks arriving in your mailbox, as opposed to bills. Be positive and proactive.


Chapter 6: The Secret to Relationships
To attract relationships, make sure that your thoughts are positive on this subject. Also, make sure to align all other non-verbal communications. That is, your thoughts, words, actions, and surroundings. An example given in the book (of many) is to not park your car in the middle of your driveway. This tells potential partners that you don't have room for their car. Instead, part it to one side, thus allowing for the second vehicle :)
Treat yourself with Love and respect to attract the same. Love yourself first and the Law of Attraction will send you more love. Also, focus on your partner's strengths not their weaknesses. Appreciate the qualities of others. Be positive and believe in your power.


Chapter 7: The Secret to Health
Patients get cured from believing that a pill will cure them. The placebo effect. That is, it's not the medicine itself, but the thought that the medicine is effective is what counts. To have good health, focus on good health. Laughter attracts joy, releases negativity and leads to miraculous cures. I guess laughter is the best medicine. Disease is a mental state that is fed by fear, and the constant reminder and talking about it. To prevent it or cure it, just turn your thoughts to positive outcomes and health and eternal youth. Do not listen to society'snegative messages about desease and aging. Avoid talking about disease or joining others when they discuss diseases.


Chapter 8: The Secret to the World
If you resist something, you will actually attract it. To change this, go within yourself and emit a new signal with thoughts and feelings. Focus on trust, love, abundance, peace. Don't focus on the negativity of our present world. Life is meant to be abundant, and THERE IS ENOUGH FOR EVERYONE. Your thoughts and feelings will allow you to tap onto this unlimited supply. Praise and bless everything and everyone. This will allow you to align with the highest frequency available - LOVE.


Chapter 9: The Secret to You
Everything is Energy - including you. Recall from Science class that "energy can neither be created nor destroyed, it can only be transformed". You are a magnet and can attract everything you want. The Universe emerges from thought. We are the creators of our destiny and of the Universe. You have an unlimited supply of ideas. We are all connected and we are all One. Always remember that what you want is only a thought away. Set yourself to the same frequency as what you want by focusing on it as if it were an absolute fact.


Chapter 10: The Secret to Life
You are the teacher who writes on your blackboard. All you need to do is feel good now. Use your newly discovered power, and you will attract even more power.


THE END.